At 31 I am single...

When I hit 30 last year I just came to realize that I am alone
Seeing friends getting married one by one , I get to be teased and asked about my single state...
There was a time that I really wanted to be married and even suggested to a long time friend if He wants to marry me...but I was turned down flat...

I asked myself, if I'm married or getting married at this point in my life will I be alright?
A few factors I have to consider
 First is my lifestyle...
I'm used to just suddenly pack a bag and go travel
Take a holiday...
I could freely go shopping without thinking if I have enough to spend
After a long days work..I just crash at my couch not thinking to have dinner
Getting pregnant? Will I be alright with children?
I wanted children but the responsibility of having a child will I keep up with it?
With the state I might still rely on my family to raise a child...it will be sooo unfair for them

I was talking to a dear friend and we came to a point me being single
I asked him what's wrong with me? I always end up alone and left out?
He said this...

"The problem with the men you meet is they don't know what approach to use that is right for you
... the waves are unsteady with your personality...Its just that the right man hasn't come yet that can understand the flow of your personality...You are not difficult to love...I know that because through the years I have observed and came to know the real you...Those men used the wrong strategy, if they only looked sincerely into your soul through those deceptive eyes of yours, then they would have found the real side of you...a gentle,adorable, and lovely person that would be every man's dream."-RED CLOUD


"Well,  dating is a common human behavior where in species of the opposite sex will seek for a partner where they feel compatible with... a lock will always find for its key... so there is alot of trial and error just to know where u could fit in...you then realize how mysterious life is..." - RED CLOUD